Here is an article I found on a online magazine website called Clutch Magazine. The article talks about after a relationship ends, its okay to remain friends with your "ex". I thought it was interesting and figured I'd share with you. I'm sure many of us have been in this type of situation....Click on the link to read the whole article...
The Super Ex-Boyfriend Clutch Magazine: The Digital Magazine for the Young, Contemporary Woman of Color
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Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
Encourage Yourself
A few weeks ago I was on facebook and had come across my younger cousin's page. She had a posting of a video that she had recorded of herself singing. I must say I didn't know that she could sing as well as she did until that day. The song was called "Encourage Yourself" by Donald Lawrence. I've heard the song many times before at church and from others but watching her sing it was different. I watched it a few times, listening to the words, and realized how young she was.. singing these words of encouragement.
I thought to myself, sometimes you just have to receive information from a different form to actually understand it. I needed a word to uplift me that week and it just wasn't coming to me. This is when the video came to me and I said "that's RIGHT..Encourage Yourself". I think we often look for encouragement from others and it really has to start with us first. People can tell you to do this, try that, read this, but if we don't start with our self..we end up nowhere (does this make sense?). I'm not saying that we shouldn't ask others to help us, pray for us, or encourage us etc...I just think we need to start believing in ourselves more. We can be our own worst critic or enemy.
I challenge you today to start encouraging yourself. I will also do the same. We must speak VICTORY over whatever situations that we go through. The TONGUE is a powerful tool. Use it wisely. I'm not preaching to you I promise. I just want to spread more positive energy because in this day and age its becoming more corrupt by the minute and people are corrupting themselves. So I want to say THANK YOU to my younger cousin for singing that song. It helped me more than you'll ever know..
If you don't have "Encourage Yourself" by Donald Lawrence on your ipod playlist...DOWNLOAD it NOW..LOL
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SGpBG7VfRq4&feature=search
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I thought to myself, sometimes you just have to receive information from a different form to actually understand it. I needed a word to uplift me that week and it just wasn't coming to me. This is when the video came to me and I said "that's RIGHT..Encourage Yourself". I think we often look for encouragement from others and it really has to start with us first. People can tell you to do this, try that, read this, but if we don't start with our self..we end up nowhere (does this make sense?). I'm not saying that we shouldn't ask others to help us, pray for us, or encourage us etc...I just think we need to start believing in ourselves more. We can be our own worst critic or enemy.
I challenge you today to start encouraging yourself. I will also do the same. We must speak VICTORY over whatever situations that we go through. The TONGUE is a powerful tool. Use it wisely. I'm not preaching to you I promise. I just want to spread more positive energy because in this day and age its becoming more corrupt by the minute and people are corrupting themselves. So I want to say THANK YOU to my younger cousin for singing that song. It helped me more than you'll ever know..
If you don't have "Encourage Yourself" by Donald Lawrence on your ipod playlist...DOWNLOAD it NOW..LOL
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SGpBG7VfRq4&feature=search
BROWN SKIN. BIG DREAMS
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Sunday, August 15, 2010
Grand C.I.T.Y. Sports: Young Men with a Purpose
This past Saturday I had the pleasure to spectate the 1st basketball camp held by Grand C.I.T.Y. Sports. This is a nonprofit organization commited to reaching the youth and community in the Grand Rapids, Michigan area. It was started by a childhood friend of mine, Chris Sain whom I also look to as a big brother (since I am the only child). Other members of the organization include his brother Preston Sain, Eric Malloy, Carlton Brewster, Terna Nande, and Aaron Johnson just to name a few of many young African American men. All of the young men are all in their mid/late 20's...YES, NOT ALL BLACK MEN ARE STATISTICS. These young men are giving back to their community with the talents they were given at young age.
The basketball camp featured two semi-pro basketball players (both from Grand Rapids) Marcus Lancaster and Jakari Johnson at Seidman Center. The kids were shown many different basketball skills including watching a game between the seidman center youth team and the Grand City members. There was a total of 88 children ages 6 through 13 in attendance.
Although the fellas put me to work (I had to serve lunch:-)) it turned out to be a great event. I was very pleased to see all of the children engaging in positive activities and being mentored by these young men. There was also a raffle for school supplies that was given to 25 lucky winners.
Overall, it was a good day for children of Grand Rapids. I'm sure there will be more to come from Grand C.I.T.Y. There are positive events going on in Grand Rapids more than people actually know. Big props to the BROWN SKIN young men with BIG DREAMS of making the community great. If you want more information about this organization, check out Grand C.I.T.Y.'s website at http://www.grandcitysports.com/.
BROWN SKIN. BIG DREAMS.
The basketball camp featured two semi-pro basketball players (both from Grand Rapids) Marcus Lancaster and Jakari Johnson at Seidman Center. The kids were shown many different basketball skills including watching a game between the seidman center youth team and the Grand City members. There was a total of 88 children ages 6 through 13 in attendance.
Although the fellas put me to work (I had to serve lunch:-)) it turned out to be a great event. I was very pleased to see all of the children engaging in positive activities and being mentored by these young men. There was also a raffle for school supplies that was given to 25 lucky winners.
Overall, it was a good day for children of Grand Rapids. I'm sure there will be more to come from Grand C.I.T.Y. There are positive events going on in Grand Rapids more than people actually know. Big props to the BROWN SKIN young men with BIG DREAMS of making the community great. If you want more information about this organization, check out Grand C.I.T.Y.'s website at http://www.grandcitysports.com/.
BROWN SKIN. BIG DREAMS.
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Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Please Welcome "BROWN SKIN. BIG DREAMS".
Hello World! This is a very exciting venture for me because most people who know me, know I'm not a "writer". I thought this blog would be interesting for me to explore writing, share my views, and interact with others in a different way. Let me start by introducing myself to you....
My name is Fallon. A BROWN SKIN woman with BIG DREAMS. Ok now we're introduced! LOL (Laugh Out Loud) for the non-social media, text message people. I'm usually the laid back type of person that observes others and goes with the flow..sound boring huh? I've never been the loud woman, seeking attention....that has never been my style. I'm more of the lady who walks with grace, making sure everything is in place, and the smell of a clean fragrance. Sounds bougie but I'm far from that. I was always taught to look presentable at all times...I took that lesson and RAN with it.
Each and everyday I'm learning more about LIFE. The experiences that I go through are nothing more than God's pattern for my life and also lessons for others. You may look at me as if I have it going on but like you, I deal with the trials and tribulations of life (no one is perfect). Every day is NOT candyland but I will not let anything steal my joy and happiness. This point brings me to my BIG DREAMS. It may not be big dreams to you but any dream that comes into a reality for me is a BIG DREAM. I someday want start a business for families adopting outside of their race, who need cultural education and hair care services (I have the business plan already done). Its almost setup like home care but instead we'll come to the home for the consultation and set up of services. This is just ONE of my DREAMS...I'm in my mid 20's and have accomplished quit a few things like graduating with a Bachelor's and MBA, no kids out of wedlock, traveled to many places including South Africa, and I have a pretty decent job...not bad under statistical speculations for my BROWN SKIN. I say these things to encourage others to follow their dreams and show them (especially my culture) that you can do ANYTHING you want to if it's in GOD'S will. As we have all heard it before "Dare to Dream".
In this blog I will post as often as I can and try to introduce new people I come across, places, ideas, stories, and whatever else comes to my mind at that moment in time...So bare with me, its all new to me (shout out to all the bloggers out there, especially BKNOWN. I hope you'll enjoy the ride with me.... Please Welcome "BROWN SKIN. BIG DREAMS."
Follow Me on Twitter: www.twitter.com/iLoveFallon
My name is Fallon. A BROWN SKIN woman with BIG DREAMS. Ok now we're introduced! LOL (Laugh Out Loud) for the non-social media, text message people. I'm usually the laid back type of person that observes others and goes with the flow..sound boring huh? I've never been the loud woman, seeking attention....that has never been my style. I'm more of the lady who walks with grace, making sure everything is in place, and the smell of a clean fragrance. Sounds bougie but I'm far from that. I was always taught to look presentable at all times...I took that lesson and RAN with it.
Each and everyday I'm learning more about LIFE. The experiences that I go through are nothing more than God's pattern for my life and also lessons for others. You may look at me as if I have it going on but like you, I deal with the trials and tribulations of life (no one is perfect). Every day is NOT candyland but I will not let anything steal my joy and happiness. This point brings me to my BIG DREAMS. It may not be big dreams to you but any dream that comes into a reality for me is a BIG DREAM. I someday want start a business for families adopting outside of their race, who need cultural education and hair care services (I have the business plan already done). Its almost setup like home care but instead we'll come to the home for the consultation and set up of services. This is just ONE of my DREAMS...I'm in my mid 20's and have accomplished quit a few things like graduating with a Bachelor's and MBA, no kids out of wedlock, traveled to many places including South Africa, and I have a pretty decent job...not bad under statistical speculations for my BROWN SKIN. I say these things to encourage others to follow their dreams and show them (especially my culture) that you can do ANYTHING you want to if it's in GOD'S will. As we have all heard it before "Dare to Dream".
In this blog I will post as often as I can and try to introduce new people I come across, places, ideas, stories, and whatever else comes to my mind at that moment in time...So bare with me, its all new to me (shout out to all the bloggers out there, especially BKNOWN. I hope you'll enjoy the ride with me.... Please Welcome "BROWN SKIN. BIG DREAMS."
Follow Me on Twitter: www.twitter.com/iLoveFallon
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