Beyonce' "Party"

Just Sharing a lil fun music!! Enjoy

MOVE.IN.SILENCE.

........it comes in many forms and is always lookng for something to attach itself to.  It looks at people around them and it sees their happiness. It doesn't accept not being the center of attention.  It talks rampedly around ears from one ear to the next.  It doesn't give the option of brushing your teeth first earlier in the morning because it has to get out to start the day.  It causes fear of the unknown because it doesn't know what to expect next.  This very same thing can cause strife in friendships, relationships, partnerships, businesses, etc.  It moves just like a snake waiting to attach its prey with venon.  Some call is jealousy but I call it HATE/HATERS.  This type of hate actually makes me laugh because it is SO unnessary.  I look at what it does and how it comes and SMH (shake my head).  Why use so much energy hating someone OR hating on someone? The same energy used can be used to fuel fire for success.

A thought came to me about Hate/Haters is: MOVE.IN.SILENCE.  Silence is the best way to deal with it.  You don't have to approach that person or situation, write a note, or make an announcement.  When you decide to MOVE.IN.SILENCE it kills them even more.  Your positive light and energy will illumniate so bright that they have no choice but to move to its next victim.  Besides that as long as you have GOD on your side, your enemies don't stand a chance.  ("When a man's ways are pleasing to Lord, he makes even his enemies at peace with him" Psalms 16:7).  Another quote that came to me when thinking about this is "Always be kind and humble because you'll never know who will have to give you your last cup of water"...I'll let that marinate on ya'll a bit....LOL.

These are my thoughts for today....What are your comments/please share.

Signing Off,

BROWN SKIN. BIG DREAMS.

BE. BLACK. LOVE.

I'm blogging via iPhone so bare with me...First, how is everyone?? It's been quite some time since I blogged. Yes, know you've missed me but you know how it is when you have a million things going on?! Well I'm back and ready to blog and share with you all again. Today a thought came to me about "BLACK LOVE". It started from the infamous "rumor" of Will and Jada Smith's supposedly separation. The blogs, Facebook statutes, and Tweets were going out of control. Some were saying that "if Will and Jada have split, there's no hope for Black Love". Excuse me?! theyre reportedly swingers anway..was my initial response to reading that statement. What about Mr. President and First Lady Obama? The are doing well. My second response to myself was WE make "Black Love".

When I refer to "We", I mean that all of us can create our own Black Love. We don't need one popular couple to define an entire group of people. Many of us have had at least one example of Black Love and if not, it's time to BE the example ourselves. I believe that we can create or own examples of what we want to be, how we want to look, and share with others.

So today I challenge you to BE BLACK LOVE and make the change WE need to see.

Signing off,
Brown Skin. Big Dreams.