WHY say yes?!

A recently had a conversation about relationships and marriage.  Just like any other conversation we discussed real life scenarios and tried to figure out the WHY part.  The "why" part is in reference to why do people get into relationships or get married when they're not ready???  I don't know about you but I've asked this question several times looking for a clear answer and have received different ones each time. 

There have been many who've gotten into relationships with someone and have cheated on their mate.  I'm sure you have heard stories or maybe have had personal experiences with this (I'm not pointing anyone one out).  The cheater (so I've been told) has looked for a another piece of excited, more satisfaction, or just didn't care because technically they aren't married...."Do right" man/woman?!  Why even bother adding that title if you know your going to cheat?  Usually there is one cheating and one faithful..or both, heck I don't know.  Why do people waste each others time, energy, and emotions if they know that they will not hold to the commitment of that relationship? This mind boggles me...

Marriage is the for SURE stamp on a commitment.  Many people dream (especially most women) of their wedding day with the white dress (hopefully not for some LOL..joke) and walking down the aisle to meet the love of their life.  When its real LOVE it makes me happy to know people are really trying to do things the right way.  When its not about love and just for "show" or to prove a point (whatever it might be) that's not cool.  I truely believe that when people get married for the wrong reason, it never lasts and becomes a big ball of mess.  If you know that you're going to cheat, just save the money, time, stressful planning, and DON'T DO IT. Plain and simple.   Hey readers...why do you think this happens more frequently now?  I love to hear about relationships and marriages that are solid.  Of course I know that every day isn't a cake walk but come on people..we have to do better! 

Lets discuss your views....I'd love to read your comments.

Yours Truely,

BROWN SKIN. BIG DREAMS


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