This is a little excerpt from an article I read online called "Communication Killed Assumption" by Enitan Bereola II. I'm SO in love with this author!! He has an AWESOME website. I'm glad I stumbled across it via Twitter. Here is the excerpt below:
"Text messaging has been arrested in the attempted murder of effective communication. Text tried to kill real conversation. If all he does is send you words over a mobile device, it isn’t a real relationship. Oral communication is an intimate act so if a man goes as far as reaching out to pick up a phone and call or wants to talk a lady in person, he’s definitely interested. Now back to your program already in progress."
SPEAKS so much about male and female communication these days...Let's all work on this. Check out his website at http://www.bereolaesque-online.com/
BROWN SKIN. BIG DREAMS.
Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
Sunday, September 5, 2010
WHY say yes?!
A recently had a conversation about relationships and marriage. Just like any other conversation we discussed real life scenarios and tried to figure out the WHY part. The "why" part is in reference to why do people get into relationships or get married when they're not ready??? I don't know about you but I've asked this question several times looking for a clear answer and have received different ones each time.
There have been many who've gotten into relationships with someone and have cheated on their mate. I'm sure you have heard stories or maybe have had personal experiences with this (I'm not pointing anyone one out). The cheater (so I've been told) has looked for a another piece of excited, more satisfaction, or just didn't care because technically they aren't married...."Do right" man/woman?! Why even bother adding that title if you know your going to cheat? Usually there is one cheating and one faithful..or both, heck I don't know. Why do people waste each others time, energy, and emotions if they know that they will not hold to the commitment of that relationship? This mind boggles me...
Marriage is the for SURE stamp on a commitment. Many people dream (especially most women) of their wedding day with the white dress (hopefully not for some LOL..joke) and walking down the aisle to meet the love of their life. When its real LOVE it makes me happy to know people are really trying to do things the right way. When its not about love and just for "show" or to prove a point (whatever it might be) that's not cool. I truely believe that when people get married for the wrong reason, it never lasts and becomes a big ball of mess. If you know that you're going to cheat, just save the money, time, stressful planning, and DON'T DO IT. Plain and simple. Hey readers...why do you think this happens more frequently now? I love to hear about relationships and marriages that are solid. Of course I know that every day isn't a cake walk but come on people..we have to do better!
Lets discuss your views....I'd love to read your comments.
Yours Truely,
BROWN SKIN. BIG DREAMS
www.twitter.com/iLoveFallon
There have been many who've gotten into relationships with someone and have cheated on their mate. I'm sure you have heard stories or maybe have had personal experiences with this (I'm not pointing anyone one out). The cheater (so I've been told) has looked for a another piece of excited, more satisfaction, or just didn't care because technically they aren't married...."Do right" man/woman?! Why even bother adding that title if you know your going to cheat? Usually there is one cheating and one faithful..or both, heck I don't know. Why do people waste each others time, energy, and emotions if they know that they will not hold to the commitment of that relationship? This mind boggles me...
Marriage is the for SURE stamp on a commitment. Many people dream (especially most women) of their wedding day with the white dress (hopefully not for some LOL..joke) and walking down the aisle to meet the love of their life. When its real LOVE it makes me happy to know people are really trying to do things the right way. When its not about love and just for "show" or to prove a point (whatever it might be) that's not cool. I truely believe that when people get married for the wrong reason, it never lasts and becomes a big ball of mess. If you know that you're going to cheat, just save the money, time, stressful planning, and DON'T DO IT. Plain and simple. Hey readers...why do you think this happens more frequently now? I love to hear about relationships and marriages that are solid. Of course I know that every day isn't a cake walk but come on people..we have to do better!
Lets discuss your views....I'd love to read your comments.
Yours Truely,
BROWN SKIN. BIG DREAMS
www.twitter.com/iLoveFallon
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